Happy 2015! I trust you are all well and hope you had a lovely Christmas break. I must say, I’m still on holiday! For the past couple of years, my December has been marked by endless, stifling revision. This one has been different. As I am now part of the workforce, I’ve had the opportunity to take some time off and just relax. I’ve visited family and friends, ran errands for my parents and unapologetically overslept. It’s been delightful.
Now that 2015 is in full focus, many of us are planning for the upcoming months and setting goals. It’s great to feel a sense of direction for the year. But it can also be daunting if you’re not quite sure what you want to do or where you want to be. I think being uncertain about your purpose is healthy and normal. Uncertainty gives you the opportunity to reflect and re-evaluate what’s truly important to you.
Some years ago while I was wandering about on the Internet, I came across an eye-opening set of questions and thoughts that helped me brainstorm and reflect on what my purpose is. They may not give you the answers you’re looking for but they are definitely a good place to start.
p.s. I have no recollection of which blog I borrowed this from! So I must clarify that the following content is NOT my work.
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For these exercises, grab a sheet of paper, make yourself a cup of tea and go to a quiet, comfortable space.
To help find your purpose, answer these questions:
- What are you most passionate about?
- What activities do you find the most joy in?
- What is the one thing you feel you couldn’t live without doing?
- Who are your inspirations, and why?
- What skills are people constantly complimenting you on?
- What goals in your life are the most meaningful?
- What do you want to be remembered for?
- What comes exceptionally easy for you?
Once you have answered these questions, try to find the ‘common denominators’. Do you see any patterns/similarities? Is there a recurring theme? These patterns/similarities are an indicator of your purpose in life. If you are still having issues; try to focus your quest on uncovering your endroit pour rencontrer des femmes raw, go natural abilities, things that come innate to you.
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S: Stands for specific; you must be as specific as possible when writing down your list of goals. Focus on why you want to do it, how you want to do it, and when you want to do it.
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Once you have figured out your purpose, and written down your goals; it’s time to practice the BE – DO – HAVE Paradigm. Are you are a Human Doing or a Human Being?
Simply put, you need to BE in harmony first. That is your state of being. Acting in love manifests an abundance of blessings.
Once you’ve mastered the art of “being” you need to actually DO some work prior to HAVING the true fulfillment you desire!
You can take it further than this and create a vision board which will help you envision your goals and purpose. I shared how vision boards have helped me in this previous post.
This exercise helped me clarify some of my plans and I hope you find it equally helpful.
© Tessy Maritim