Before We Close

We’re wrapping up 2017 and what a year it’s been! My year has been guided by a deep desire to explore and expand. I’ve been excited to learn about areas not typically within my purview- Kenya’s problematic conservation principles, emergency healthcare courtesy of the film 18 Hours and lots of new music (which I’ve been sharing via my playlists here). It’s been great to be back in Nairobi permanently- I feel settled.

2017 was also led by an intention to be really active about the things I wanted to have in my life. I shared this quote by Akwaeke Emezi a while back and it’s been central to this idea:

It might not be advice per se, but I will never forget my mother telling me once how she realised that really, you are truly alone in this world. It was exactly how I was feeling and I was so grateful that she understood that stark reality. It sounds depressing, but it has helped me be self-sufficient, understanding that I am fundamentally responsible for myself and my well-being, and that never changes, regardless of what friendships or partnerships I may enter into. Centering on myself in that way taught me how to develop my own power, which I use to shape my world into one I want to live in” – Akwaeke Emezi

Being fundamentally responsible for my life has not meant I don’t engage or depend on other people. It’s just an understanding that I’m the only person accountable for my life. For all the things I desire- emotionally, physically, mentally, professionally, I’m responsible for: identifying the needs, establishing how to meet these needs and taking the steps to have these needs met.

I want 2018 to be the year in which I anchor myself more deeply. Since moving back, it feels like I’ve been catching and keeping up with so much. And although it’s been great, it’s also been terribly overwhelming and has made me feel burnt out at many points in the past year. In 2018, I want to focus on fewer areas but with some more depth. I also want to build better relationships with people across the board. I’m excited about this.

Some 2017 highlights for me that I’m carrying forward to the new year:

  1. Always carry your charger. Even if you think your phone is charged enough. Just put it in your bag.
  2. Be consistent. Try not to abandon the seeds that you plant with so much zeal, just because you get bored. Give them time to bloom! Water them, feed them, give them sunlight.
  3. Make a list of all your favourite things to do in your city. Or all the things you’ve been wanting to do but haven’t had a chance to do yet. It’ll make things easy when you have friends visiting.
  4. Listen to people- useful information doesn’t always come through the channels you think.
  5. Create the experiences you desire.
  6. Plan for things even when you don’t have the resources. And then start with what you have. Just start.

Wishing you all a dope, exciting, special, rich, lovely and wonderful 2018!

T

© Tessy Maritim

4 Comments

  • Lilian

    December 22, 2017 at 4:04 am Reply

    Hi Tessy,

    Thanks for the great blog post I can totally agree that 2017 has been a roller coaster of a year…Could you please shade some light on what you mean by our problematic conservation principles? I have a keen interest in sustainability in Kenya

  • Tessy Maritim

    December 22, 2017 at 10:37 pm Reply

    Hi Lilian! Thank you, so glad you enjoyed the post. There’s a book I read earlier this year called ‘The Big Conservation Lie’, written by Mordecai Ogada and Mbaria wa Mbaria. It explains how conservation management in Kenya dismisses and disregards the efforts made by various communities in Kenya to preserve the environment. It’s a really good book and very eye-opening. Although some people argue it’s quite biased. But have a read for yourself and decide 🙂

  • Samoina

    December 27, 2017 at 3:14 pm Reply

    “Plan for things even when you don’t have the resources. And then start with what you have. Just start.” – most profound!

    • Tessy Maritim

      December 30, 2017 at 2:18 pm Reply

      Thank you lovely. Happy New Year, have a great 2018.

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